Manage Time and Relationships Well

We cannot please everyone all the time. However, if we want to maintain positive relationships, we must consider how we say things. Sometimes we must tell others "no" in order to get things done well. It is not what we say, but how we say it that matters. Be nice, schedule other time for your coworkers and family if possible, but be nice. Consider this: http://leadershiplessons.blog.com/?p=202

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Tips for Better Communication

Leadership training helps you communicate more effectively. Arguments are not fun. If you avoid them, then you are not growing, nor will the other person grow either. Take assertive steps to be heard by allowing others to be heard too.

Manage conflict with maturity. Here is how: http://leadershiplessons.blog.com/?p=200

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Be your best through regular training and being open to new perspectives. You will be glad you did.

Quick Leadership training lesson on ethics

Have you considered why ethics really do matter. This leadership training lesson on ethics will only take a short time to read, but may help you have much greater job satisfaction than you could ever dream wildly possible. Consider this free leadership training lesson. Click here.

Leadership training can make a power impact on individuals. One day of training can enhance morale, productivity, and employee retention. Contact Dr. Paul L. Gerhardt Dr. Paul Gerhardt to find out more.

Daily Thought That My Change Your Life for the Better

Here is how to create a life you truly love. I guarantee this is one you will want to share with others and be cool because you did. This one is worth reading a couple of times. Trust me. Your success in life comes from the vision you have of what is possible. You must therefore know you are seeing things properly. You may not be--and truly think you do. It comes from the effort and hard work you put into every task. You may not be getting the best results from what you are doing and not even realize it--but truly believe you are giving and getting your the best. 

This is deeper than you may understand--It comes from the quality of your relationships, being that you get to where you are with the help and support of others. What you really must know is that you may be limiting your success because either you do not truly have a clear vision of what success looks like for you or you are not allowing yourself to utilize what others around you can fully bring. The worst part is, your ego tells you that you are. Step away from your ego and take different look. Really. Do it!

Consider this:

Synergy is a scientific term that suggests that efforts of many people can create the outcomes greater than what they could each produce added together. In other words, 1+1+1+1 equals much more than four. It produces an outcome of perhaps 20 or 100. If you want to have much greater successes, you must have synergy. This means you must utilize the strengths, ideas and energy of others to the greatest potential. You can only do that when you are deeply listening and seeing things through the eyes of others. You may not being hearing enough from others because you are too busy to do what could benefit you most--deep empathic listening! Stop being so busy. It will pay MUCH higher benefits if you just stop and see things differently by listening differently.

Here is why:

How you see the world, truly affects what you get. If you believe that a coworker is smart and has great ideas, you will want to listen more to that person and support her ideas. This may change how she sees you and she may continue to share even greater ideas with you that help you be successful. Then the two of you can enroll others in those ideas and inspire greatness with others because you have earned deeper trust with them through your trust you built by seeing things through their eyes and truly-deeply hearing them.This is how synergy truly works. It is about making your intentions to deeply hear and build really deep-deep strong and authentic trust. It is about focusing mental energies and seeing things differently and shaping your world with extraordinary vision that can only come through synergistic means.

Are you hearing me? Are you the best you can be? Are you really bringing out the best in others because you see them in their true light? How you see things depends on how well you truly listen to others because YOU earned their trust.  You may think you see it how it really is, but I suspect you are not because you are assuming you are.

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